Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Week 15 reply from Jordan

Hey! Thanks for the email; I'm glad to hear things are going so well for everyone! I hope Robert's test went well, and I look forward to hearing about Ben's interview.
 
Things are still god here. Transfers (as I'm sure dad already knew) were this week and I am staying in the same place with Elder South. It's pretty great. We lost our District Leader (the only one in Korea for more than a year) for another Utahan who is the same mission age as Elder South, the new District Leader. We also lost one sister for a native Korean. It is even more difficult in Chinese lessons now because I get to translate from Chinese to Korean for her while Elder South and Sister Deng speak Chinese. It is rough, but I think it's helping me learn faster than I otherwise would. I was completely lost this last week, though, when a recent convert asked about creationism versus evolution and the Big Bang. It turned out all right in the end.
 
We have zone conferences about every three weeks, so we get to see other people fairly frequently. It's nice. I have not had to receive any more shots (much to my relief). I have been out of toothpaste for a while (I've been able to share and I will get some tomorrow) because Korean toothpaste, apparently, doesn't actually clean your teeth. There are only a few stores in Korea that sell American style toothpaste and none are in our area. There is a store close to the temple, though, so it will be alright.
 
As far as the people and their beliefs, I don't know if there is really a good comparison to anyone in the rest of the world. They have had Christianity for a long time (via Portugal so all the religious words sound Portuguese: Jesu Crisito) so there are a lot of people who are very knowledgeable about God and Christ, but there are also a lot of Buddhists, agnostics, and atheists. We're currently having the best success with the Catholics and the atheists, but often they run into the problems of tradition and faith receptively. They are great people, though. And as they are willing to experiment and believe what we say is true, they all see the blessings and eventually come around.  
Oh, I forgot, I think the greatest successes we are having are with the Chinese. They are very prepared and humble the vast majority of the time. It is great to see their lives and outlooks change. The gospel is true and can change our lives if we are willing to let it and willing to apply it.
 
Thank you for everything. We pray for you daily, hourly sometimes. You are all such blessings and I look forward to seeing you again when the time comes. Have fun, and keep smiling :)
Press forward with steadfast faith in Christ.

Best wishes,
Elder Jones
 
P.S. I was filling out my calendar the other day, and I think I only have 90 more weeks.... Time is short!

Week 15 - is a repdigit in binary (1111) and quaternary (33). In hexadecimal, as well as all higher bases, 15 is represented as F. Also the number of apostles alive with a full quorum and presidency

Dear Jordan,

Thank you for your email. We love hearing from you and what you are doing. Everyone continues to ask how you are doing. I enjoy hearing mom's excited responses. She likes to tell people that you are using your Chinese. I also let everyone know as well. I say that you are doing well and that you are still learning Korean. Please let us know if there is something you want us to say.
 
How is your comprehension of what the people are saying now? In Korean and Chinese? French? Any changes in who your companion is, meaning any transfers? What do you think of your mission president and his wife?
 
We had the ward Family Home Evening on Monday at the Wood's house. Mom and I were able to visit with Brother Wood for a little bit before it started. We asked him if he also found it difficult to commit investigators to baptism. He said yes, mainly because the family traditions of Buddhism and ancestor worship. He said that even if the person died and went to a place of peace and joy, if the descendant didn't burn the incense and have the statues on the mantle, then the person would be moved to a less and less pleasant place. I don't know if you are facing that situation.

I do know that if the Spirit is there in your discussion and the person recognizes the Spirit (always point it out when you feel it), that the Spirit will help confirm what the person needs to do. As you know, always say the things that the Spirit prompts you to say. I know you have heard this but I will repeat it. You can teach but the Spirit will convert and confirm. I know I was in a different situation in Ecuador. We still had plenty of people that wanted to discuss the gospel but being baptized was a different matter. The hardest part for them was if their family had been in the Catholic church for a long time, they didn't want to go against tradition. However, many times they weren't active in the church (only Easter and Christmas) so that the biggest change was starting to keep the commandments. I know that they are receiving the blessing of Lehi and the other prophets that they would be accepting the gospel in the last days. I know that the people of Korea are from a different lineage; however, they still are eligible for the blessings of the house of Abraham. 

The Lord will help you if you follow the promptings. You will get to know the people quickly and there will be little things that will stand out in your discussions with the people that will help you show that you are interested in them. Let them know that Heavenly Father loves them and wants them to be happy. One thing that occurred to me was, in their lives, they have already made many important decisions (marriage, work, car, house) and with their decision, there have been blessings and trials. Baptism is the same but there will be special blessings and trials. When they were making the important decisions, ask why they decided to make the decision (what prompted them to make the decision) and then the process they went through to finalize the decision. With many of our decisions we only have so much information or people to talk with to gather the information. With baptism, we also can research and ask but we have a loving Heavenly Father who will respond. He has many more blessings for us if we will do his will. (see Ensign article at end of email). When I was in the discussions with the people in Ecuador, the Spirit made it easy for the people to accept baptism, plus it was part of their traditions to be baptized. If I think of anything else, I will let you know.
 
Dallin is back in his mission. Robert is taking a test today for his work. He has been studying for several months to pass it. I hope he has good news. Ben had another job interview and I hope to hear how it went on Sunday. Grandma and Grandpa Stamps were in town last week and some of the girls and mom were able to see them briefly and eat dinner with them.
 
How have your meals been? Is there anything that you don't have access to that you need? Have you had a zone meeting yet? Have you had any visiting General Authorities? Do you have to get any additional shots while you are there? (we generally received our gamma globulin shots at Zone Meetings) You may not have the same situations/meetings.
 
Spring is almost here. We had highs in the 50s and 60s last week. This week we got some snow but the temperature is rising. Hopefully we will continue to receive rain so that we have enough water. How is the weather there? What have you liked? Have you been able to visit any sites yet? Did you go through the temple in Korean or English?
 
The Lord has blessed you and us exceedingly. He loves us and watches over us. The gospel is true and we can receive eternal life (the greatest gift) by living the commandments. We love you and miss you but are grateful that you are willing to serve the Lord. Continue to work hard and smart but always follow the Spirit.
 
Love,
Mom, Sarah, Hannah, Rachel, Bekah, dad
 
P.S. - Here is the article from the March Ensign, if you haven't seen it yet.

Serving a Stranger
BY YONG GIL PARK
As my departure from Korea came closer, I was worried. Who would take care of my aunt after I left?
My mom never accepted the gospel in her earthly journey, even though I had prayed for her and felt she would accept it someday. She was a strong woman who sacrificed throughout her life to support our family after the Korean War. On the one-year anniversary of my mom’s death, my wife and I went to the Los Angeles California Temple to perform her baptism and confirmation.

The strong Spirit in the room confirmed to me that my mom gladly accepted the gospel and the ordinances.
Just before my mom passed away, she asked me to take care of her younger sister, who was in a hospital in Korea. My family and I lived in California, USA, so unfortunately there seemed to be no way to fulfill my mom’s compassionate last wish.
Then my job unexpectedly relocated me to South Korea, and I had to be separated from my family for a year. Although I was concerned about living far from my family, I also anticipated visiting my aunt and my dad, who was in a Korean hospital suffering from Alzheimer’s disease.

I asked Heavenly Father for divine help in living away from my family. As I thought about the time I would spend in Korea, I resolved to visit my dad, my aunt, and the temple weekly as well as to pray for my family daily.
Once I was in Korea, the bishop of my new ward called me to be the Young Men president and the Gospel Doctrine teacher. My ward and the hospitals where my dad and aunt stayed were far from each other, and I had a very demanding job; but Heavenly Father blessed me with strength and stamina to magnify my callings and to keep my resolutions.

Soon after I started visiting my aunt, I discovered she rarely had any visitors. I decided to pick her up and have her stay with me on the weekends at my hotel, which had an extra room. However, I had a problem: should I take her with me to church on Sunday? I thought she would neither be interested in nor understand the meetings, and she would have to wait for hours after church for me to be done with meetings and other duties. But for some reason I felt I should take her.

That Sunday I took her with me, and, as expected, she had to wait for me afterward. After my meetings, I took her back to the hotel to eat. I noticed that she held a bag. I asked her about it, and she said a sister had given her some snacks. Whenever I had duties after church, this sister—who did not know my aunt—always offered my aunt snacks. One week during my Sunday School lesson, a familiar voice volunteered to read a scripture. I had never imagined my aunt would volunteer, but a kind sister sitting next to my aunt had prompted her to read for the class. Although my aunt was not good at socializing because of her time isolated in the hospital, all the members kindly greeted and chatted with her.

Every Sunday evening I would take her back to the hospital and promise to pick her up the next weekend, which always brought a happy smile to her face. One day a friend of mine shared a concern that my aunt might have a hard time when my visits suddenly stopped when I left Korea. As my scheduled departure from Korea came closer, I felt mixed emotions—happy to be soon reunited with my family but distressed and sad about leaving my aunt alone. Finally, I explained to my aunt that I would not be able to visit her as often. She paused a moment, obviously disappointed. 

Then she tried to compose herself and asked if I could visit her again in a year. I cried and desperately asked Heavenly Father to help this lady. On my last Sunday in Korea, the bishop asked if ward members could pick up my aunt on Sundays to bring her to church. He said that a number of members were willing to visit her on a regular basis—so many that they would have to organize and take turns. 

I could not believe his offer! This was the unexpected answer to my desperate prayers. Since the members lived far away from my aunt’s hospital, I offered to leave some money for them to cover the travel expenses, 
but the members refused to take my money. They told me they would take turns visiting once a month, but I found out later that they actually visited every week. One faithful sister picks up my aunt every Friday to attend institute and have lunch. She even took her to a beauty shop for a haircut. Another sister, a single mother of two teenage children, volunteered to pick her up every Sunday morning. She cooks for my aunt, takes her for a walk, and listens to music with her. Most importantly, she tries to be a friend, and my aunt has finally opened up and comfortably chats with her and other members. 

Every Sunday evening the bishop picks up my aunt from a member’s home after his long day of Church meetings and other duties to take her back to the hospital. Every Thursday he sends a kind email to me to report their heavenly service for my aunt. I believe that my mom saw the actions of faithful Latter-day Saints serving her younger sister. And now I know, more clearly than ever, why we call our fellow Church members “brothers” and “sisters.”

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

Week 14 reply (from Jordan)

From: Jordan Stamps Jones <jsjones@myldsmail.net>
Date: March 16, 2014 at 9:24:29 PM MDT
To: Steven Jones <sajmba2002@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: Week 14 - The fortnight week

Thank you for the news! I am glad to hear that people are getting better at last. It's not fun to be sick. I am excited to hear that Dallin is going back out! That will be great :)

I look forward to hearing how everything goes with Robert's exam, Ben's work search, and Grandma's visit. I know that there are many missionaries who are already praying for those in the military and I know that Chris will be taken care of. I look forward to seeing all of them when I get back and have a friendly game of St. Petersburg.

Things are good out here. We had a few lessons with Chinese investigators and more with Koreans. Things are going pretty well on that front, but a universal issue seems to be taking that "leap of faith", whether that be thinking their church may not have the whole truth, or thinking that there may be a God. It's tough, but those are the kinds of things we do every day. Everyone always makes decisions based on faith, but in things like this, and to a certain extent, in everything, there is a slight apprehension that is difficult to overcome. If anyone has advice on helping us care for that need, please let me know! That is a struggle in everyone's life in some way, and we want to help.

Thank you for sharing the story from Bruce. It is really good. We are doing a lot of that here, and we will do even more when our district leader, the only one who has been in Korea for more than six months, leaves. It's going to be interesting, and I'm sure you'll hear a lot more about that as this next transfer goes on.

I am glad to hear people are doing well. It's good to know that our prayers are helping in visible ways :)
Press forward with steadfast faith in Christ.

Best wishes,
Elder Jones

Week 14 - The fortnight week (from Dad)

Dear Jordan,
안녕하세요. We hope that you continue to be well. We continue to pray for you every day. I still pray that you will continue to learn the languages (Korean and Chinese) and to understand the people. Great job on setting the appointment over the phone! 훌륭한 일 (this is probably a bad Google translation of great job) It is one thing to be able to see the person's expressions as they are talking versus just listing and understanding the caller. When I was teaching English to the Galena Branch members, they were fine talking face to face but they were terrified of talking with someone on the phone.

We are healthier now. Bekah is over her strep. Mom is feeling better. Rachel had a cold but is getting over it. Elder Munton gets headaches in the mornings. On Saturday, I received a call from the missionaries to see if I could go on splits with them because Elder Munton needed to rest for a couple of hours. I went with Elder Alpin giving out invitations to a March Soup Madness get together for the Edgemont ward on the following Saturday. We also tried to set up an appointment for a discussion.

Grandma Jones is in Denver still with Bonni while Chris is deployed to Afghanistan. Ben is still looking for a career job rather than just a job. Robert is still prepping to take an exam for his work. Grandma and Grandpa Stamps will be visiting tomorrow for a few hours. Mom gave the girls permission to skip school to visit with them during the day. Hannah rejected the offer but Sarah asked, "Even me?" Sarah has Friday off already.

Yesterday, President Hanni gave me a ride home from TRAX and he asked about you. He read the part of your last letter where you were starting to understand the people. Both of us remembered when we started understanding the people and you are pretty much on track. He thought that you had said that you were feeling confident in the MTC with the language and I said that I didn't recall seeing that in any of your emails. I seem to remember that you were insecure in your ability to speak Korean. It doesn't really matter. What matters is how you feel about your ability to speak, write, understand Korean and the people (same for Chinese, my multi-lingual son). I am sure that you are using the Spirit to understand the people. Speaking of which, Bruce sent me a story that I think you might enjoy. I will include it at the end of the email.

I did a Google search (yes, you can stop chuckling now) on how to learn Korean and there was a result that said "how to learn Korean in 15 minutes". I looked through it and it was interesting. It was more about the alphabet and how it is the simplest/easiest in the world. It started out with the 9 consonants and 2 vowels.
Consonants Vowels
no ee
b oo
d
g
r
m
n
p
s

Each syllable is squished into one block and must have one consonant and one vowel. If you want you can add one more consonant on the bottom.
If you add a little notch to the letters, you can change the sound that they make.
G becomes K, D becomes T, Nothing becomes H, S becomes J. Add one more notch and you get CH.
If you add the notch to a vowel, it will sound like the place you put it.
EE becomes U like Up front or A like in fAr away or E like in bEfore or A like in After. OO becomes O like in Over or OO like in rOOt.
If you double up a consonant, just stress the sound. If you double up vowels, you just blend the two sounds. Usually it just sounds like you added a W. If you double up a notch, it just adds a Y sound.
There are 3 letters that make a different sound if you put them at the end of a syllable.
O makes an NG if you put it at the end
^ makes a T if you put it at the end
2 makes an L if you put it at the end.

Please let me know if this is basically correct. If you haven't see this but it is correct, I hope that this will help. (located at: http://nedhardy.com/2012/04/25/learn-korean-in-15-minutes-yep-its-that-easy/ but you don't need to open it)

Please let us know what is happening with you. Believe it or not, we want to hear about what you do each day, who you are teaching, what are your successes and failures, and what you are learning from the Spirit. We understand that you only have so much time each P-day (even President Hanni says so) to send emails but we would like as much as you want to share. I wonder if it is because the smoke smell that you have to deal with that you answer the questions but don't embellish. Please make sure that you are keeping track of everything in your journal so that you can refer back to it in the future. As you know, this will be the hardest but most joyful time for you until you get married.

We love you very much. We miss you. We support you. You are great!
Love,
dad, Mom, Sarah, Hannah, Rachel, Bekah (and all of the unseen angels round about you)

P.S. - the actress who played Helga in Hogan's Heroes died this week. She was 76.

P.S.S. - here is the story from Bruce Mecham.

This is Brother Blaine M. Yorgason's "vantage Point" of an experience that he had a little more than a year ago.

POLICE IN THE TEMPLE
Blaine M. Yorgason

On the Saturday late shift, 15 December 2012, I was called to the front Recommend Desk where I saw two police officers. As the Assistant Recorder I asked how I could help them, and was told there had been an accident involving a young child. "We need you to find the mother," one of them said, "and bring her to us as quickly as possible."
With the help of the sisters at the Family File Desk we isolated the session she was on, and I went up, stopped the session, and asked the surprised officiator if a Sister Rita Paige was in the room. Looking worried, a woman rose to her feet and came toward me. I led her out into the foyer, told her there had been an accident involving one of her children, and informed her that the police were waiting downstairs to take her to the hospital’s emergency room.

Anxiously she followed me down to the sisters’ locker room and went in to change back into her street clothes. Feeling bad that I didn't know enough to tell her more, I asked a Sister Ordinance Worker to bring her to the front desk as soon as possible, and then I went there to wait with the police.

A little later I saw her coming, walked back to meet her, and returned with her to the two officers. As soon as they realized who she was, both of them turned toward me.

“Why didn’t you bring the father?” The officer who spoke seemed quite put out
.
“Because you asked for the mother,” I replied.

“No,” the other officer declared, “we asked for the parents! We need them both!”

“Whatever,” I thought to myself, for I was certain they had asked only for the mother. Nevertheless I retraced my steps, once again stopped the session (the only two times I have ever stopped a session) and this time asked for Brother Bob Paige. Looking bewildered he rose to his feet and followed me into the hall. While awaiting his wife the police had told me their nine year old son had drowned in a local motel pool, but passersby had been able to revive him sufficiently to restore minimal vital signs. What they hadn’t told me was that he was exhibiting no brain activity whatsoever!

I conveyed what little information I had to Brother Paige, was amazed at his calmness, and he even stopped with me while I put the name Christian Paige (their son’s name) on the Prayer Roll. When we reached the front desk the officers were gone with Sister Paige, but another officer was just coming through the front door, and he immediately escorted Brother Paige out to his police cruiser.

Perhaps ten minutes later another officer came through the door and asked if I would gather the family together as soon as they came through the veil, and privately tell them what I could, and that if they wished to see the child they would be escorted by the police to the hospital.

I did as instructed, but by the time the people had gathered at the front door we were all informed that the child had been airlifted to Primary Children's Medical Center in Salt Lake City, so they slowly dispersed and I returned to the Recorder’s Office to continue my more normal activities.

Several times over the next few days I asked about young Christian’s welfare , but no one I asked knew anything. As I began my Thursday afternoon shift I asked our head of Temple Security, Ray Anderson, if he had heard anything, and he replied that from what he’d been told, the boy had walked out of Primary Children's Medical Center the past Monday, feeling fine. I was both amazed and thrilled to hear this, and a little later when I could get a few minutes alone, I thanked Heavenly Father that the boy and his family had been so blessed.

Perhaps an hour or so later, President Jeppson of the Temple Presidency entered the Recorder’s Office. “Brother Yorgason,” he stated as I looked up from the computer, “I want you to know how pleased I was to hear about the life you saved last week.”

“I didn’t save anyone’s life,” I replied, certain he had me confused with someone else.

“That isn’t how I heard it,” he replied. “Weren’t you the one who assisted that family whose son drowned in a swimming pool while they were here on a Temple session with other family members?”

“Yes, but…”

“Well,” he interrupted me, “I just spoke with one of the police officers who was here that day in his official capacity, and he assured me it was you who saved the boy’s life.”

“But… I don’t understand…”

“According to him, they had requested of you that you go and find the boy’s parents as quickly as possible, and bring them to the front desk. Rather than hearing them ask for the parents, however, you heard them ask only for the mother, so it was just her you brought back with you.”

“Yes, President, I remember that.”

“Well, Blaine, that’s how you saved his life! You were listening to the Spirit. You see, even after the boy was taken to the Emergency Room with vital signs, the doctors were unable to discern any brain activity. Based upon that, they decided the boy had died and needed to be removed from life support – which also meant they needed the permission of both parents to take such action. Had you heard the word ‘parents’ they would have both arrived in time to give their permission, and their little son would have died.

“But because you heard the word 'mother' and so had to make a second trip up into the Temple to retrieve the boy’s father, thereby taking twice as long as it should have to get the parents together in the ER, you gave the Lord time to restore the child’s brain activity – his life. That is why, instead of Brother and Sister Paige giving heart-broken permission to let their child die, he was able to give his son a blessing before the child was air-lifted to PCMC in Salt Lake City, where he continued on to a quick and full recovery.”

“So what you’re saying, President, is that because I’m half deaf and move so slowly these days, the boy lived.”

President Jeppson chuckled. “No, Blaine. What I’m saying is that because you listened to the voice of the Spirit rather than the voice of men, you saved his life. Thank you, Brother, for being in tune.”

Well, since then I’ve thought much of this experience, and while I am more than grateful to have been a small part of it, I now realize that rather than moaning and groaning about the aches and pains and other vicissitudes of aging, which I honestly don’t like, it would be far more appropriate if I accepted them graciously as Divinely disguised gifts of the Spirit. After all, the Lord can turn all things to our good, which means, I suppose, that there are times when it isn’t all that bad being somewhat hard of hearing as well as maybe the slowest-moving old guy in the St. George Temple!

To mom (from Jordan)

From: Jordan Stamps Jones <jsjones@myldsmail.net>
Date: Sun, Mar 16, 2014 at 9:10 PM
Subject: Re: I still love you!
To: Lisa Stamps <stamps.lisa@gmail.com>


Thank you for your letter. I am happy to hear things are going well in the ward and at Summit for the students. Thank you for congratulating the actors for me. I thought the play was in another couple weeks, so I forgot to ask you to do that for me... Thank you :)

I wish you the best luck on the SSI application and I hope it ends up working out, but even if it doesn't, things will work out in the end as long as everyone is doing everything they can. That's somethings I've learned really well out here. If we are doing everything we can, things will work out better than we could've imagined, but if we are even a little lazy or are doing things for the wrong reasons, we will not receive that help. It's tough, but it would be infinitely more so if we didn't receive that help. I'd say read in Mosiah about Alma and the church after they were "captured" by the Lamanites. It's a good insight into how God works sometimes.

Life was meant to be hard, but it doesn't need to be impossible. If we do everything we can and hold nothing back, nothing can stop us from doing what needs to be done. This isn't because of our efforts. This is because our efforts allow God to give us all the help we need and more. Living God's way is never easy, but it is always better.

Thank you for conveying all the news and salutations. I am really happy for Hannah and I wish Rachel all the best and I would give her the same advice as I just gave you above. I look forward to seeing everyone again, but in the meantime, please say hello for me to each of them, accompanied by a hug if possible :)
Press forward with steadfast faith in Christ.

Best wishes,
Elder Jones

P.S. There are quite a few Chinese over here already, we'll see how many more come!

To Jordan (from Mom)


---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Lisa Stamps <stamps.lisa@gmail.com>
Date: Mon, Mar 10, 2014 at 8:47 AM
Subject: I still love you!
To: Jordan Stamps Jones <jsjones@myldsmail.net>


People continue to ask about you every day. On Saturday we went to see the SAHS production of "Anne Frank." They did really well. Mrs. Turnbow sought me out to give me a hug and to ask about your well-being. After the show, I approached each of the players I knew who knew you and gave them kudos plus a hug with a "this is from Jordan." I kept looking for you above the crowd of actors emerged from the side hall. It was hard to see you not there. You are desperately missed by that group of kids/teachers.

Church yesterday was surprising because we had ***** at church in a brand new white shirt. I invited him to sit with us. Before he had a chance to sit down, Chad had pounced on him to invite him to pass the sacrament. It was very touching. Apparently, he's living in the state mental hospital where he has been active and involved with young men's activities.

The newsletter got done...eventually! I finally figured out that I can do it best by myself rather than using a template.

I am applying for SSI (Social Security Supplemental Income) for Sarah. This week is the final (I hope) of the telephone interviews. All we really need is the medical coverage since the state declined her (because she's still a minor and dad makes too much money). There are worse situations. :)

My job at the school has been REALLY challenging for me. I sat through a training Thursday that taught: "Every grade has a team. Every team has a leader. You are not it." It's really hard to be reminded that I'm working far below my potential--at least my education level. My classmates are judges and CEOs and I'm a 5th grade TA who has never held a real job for more than a year.

Mental health has become more of a political issue and it breaks my heart to think how little I did for you guys. I'm so proud of you for rising to the occasion: with laundry, dishes, chauffeuring, helping your sisters, teaching yourself instruments and the like. When I see little people who have been taking ballet since they were 3, I am reminded of all you missed because of me. :(

*****'s mom just got diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis on top of her already suicidal tendency because of her bi-polar. ***** is in Europe somewhere (*****?) and it's got to be hard on him to know how much she's struggling. *****'s (Hannah's age) just is still recovering from cancer treatments herself.

Ugghh! Sorry for such bad news. I feel like such a downer.

Good news (?) ***** started at Summit today. Hannah's excited. I hope that it turns out to be a good fit for her. Speaking of Hannah, she's ranked #1 in her class. She's SO thrilled. Rachel and I just had her CCR where we talked about her future plans. She wants to be a singer/actress. It's hard not to be afraid of all the failure artists must endure. She is not well...again. I hope it's not her depression/anxiety rearing its ugly head.

I fear I missed you this week. So sorry. Please know that I love you and miss you--especially where I'm used to being around you: driving H/A to school, school plays, seeing kids who say, "Aren't you Jordan's mom?" and after the men pass the sacrament. There's still a little pause of silence when everyone walks by and you don't. I miss the tissue delivery desperately!

We've had so many new families move into the ward...you won't believe how few people you'll know when you get back. Joyce seems to be doing fine, the Clements ask about you every time I see them. The Urton's are always clamoring for a Jordan update--HT doesn't feel the same without you! The Lynch's are always inquiring after your well-being.

Oh, and btw, I asked H to ask the pretty girl from school if she still had a boyfriend; the dark hair, went to Taiwan with you, pictures of you two at school there...can't remember her name. Anyway, she doesn't! H told her that I wanted to know--not you!

At the dentist last week (I broke another tooth), I watched a program about how South Korea is pushing a major tourist campaign toward the Mainland. They are apparently succeeding, and they're seeing hundreds of thousands popping over for their leisure travel. Perhaps you'll meet even more! It was fun to see pictures of SK and visualize you among them. You're my pride and joy. Be well, my favorite son. I am proud of you, and wish for all the best as you serve so selflessly.

Much love, Mom

Saw this and thought of Jordan

"I live by this credo: Have a little laugh at life and look around you for happiness instead of sadness. Laughter has always brought me out of unhappy situations. Even in your darkest moment, you usually can find something to laugh about if you try hard enough." Red Skelton, 1913-1997, Comedian